comes in the form of these authorities – Teachers, Priests/Institutionalised Religions, Parents, Politicians, Media (TPPPM) – you know, everything that is outside of you as an INDIVIDUAL.So as you grow from childhood, you take on It is a natural phenomenon, because as children, we come into the world helpless and have to be taken care of by others (TPPPM) until we can on our own.Even if there is no guy, you talk and they have a great influence on you.Don’t get us wrong, we have told you before that looking good is what men like about their girl but there is a difference. Think about the previous situation or just let us set the setting for you.Especially if they are known for their own sense of humor, that is not what they want to see!
but for now, since we assumed Si KA is just still starting out and is SEEKING answers; let’s continue).
At most, you can pretend to love their chosen lover for you, just to please them. On something so innocent and blissful as LOVE, why in the world will anyone ever say that? But parents/elders are usually like that – so, very much against love and skeptical about it. I couldn’t stare in my boyfriend’s eyes with all JOY because some where in the back of my mind, I could hear my dad go I couldn’t fully PRESENT with my boyfriend; I was divided for the most part. “ Yes, I didn’t realise it had much of an effect until when I got on the bus to go be with my boyfriend but couldn’t make it in the end because, deep down somewhere I was so in love with an ‘ imaginary jesus’ that I preferred fornicating with him in my dreams instead of a real life lover. If HITLER were sentenced to hell, I should be and angel in heaven, then.
But deep down you know you are just pretending to please them. He reminded me of how much of a sinner and of a derailed saint I had become; a good-girl-gone-bad type of thing (not in a badass sense of it, lol). It feels to me like if you told them you planned on killing someone, I am pretty sure it will not be as appalling to them as it would be falling in love with a man. Psychologically, my dad had already taken me away from my boyfriend’s house. This one seemed to pervade me way deeper than my parents/dad’s voice. For, I didn’t mercilessly incarcerate people, I just happened to enjoy someones body for a couple seconds. why is the the Priest (Institutionalised Religions) so much against sex.
When you look amazing and you go out, alone, with your girls or even go to work. As long as they are accompanying you, it is fine but right when they are no longer by your side, they start coming up with the worst case scenario in their mind and that is where it all starts. Imagine you are looking stunning (as usual but this time there’s something more about it, whether it is the new outfit you are wearing, a new lipstick or new hairstyle, something that will make a difference) and looking like that you head to work. This might sound stupid but all the people that have been in a relationship and have expressed how much they love a certain celeb know that the reaction of their boyfriend is not user-friendly much!
It is fine to work extra hours for a day or two but as it continues and you stop letting him know; boom! The fact is, they know that the celebrity is like ten times better looking than them and they already know how childish this reaction makes them look but they cannot help it.